As the popular Malay proverb goes by saying "Seperti katak di bawah tempurung" , we have been kept in our own shell of self contentment , self satisfaction and self pride for all these while until now that we are brought back to reality to realise what the world around us is like. Since young , we have been brought up , cultivated , nurtured and taught to appreciate our eastern cultures and our values. At the same time , we are incessantly being brain washed to believe how morally decadent the western cultures are. Those derogatory remarks are publicly disseminated through our text books ,in our moral lessons and even in our essay writings.
So that was the case before we see the real pictures with our own eyes. Naive mind can be easily manipulated. But having experienced their culture and lived in their society for merely a few weeks , the brain is suddenly enlightened to see the other side of the coin. There is no culture that can claim superior to the others. Ours is not as good as we think , and at the same time theirs is not as turpitude as we believe.
Below are just a few scenarios that compare our
budaya Malaysia with the Czech's culture:
Scenario 1:On the road
Our Malaysian government are seriously obsessed with the superlative-termed achievement. Tallest tower , tallest mountain , first astranout , largest silicon city , best airport so on and so forth. Of course we also boast about our high rate of road accidents , among the HIGHEST in the world. Our drivers , our Mat Rempit are well too popular for their driving skills and driving etiquette. Oblivious of traffic lights , ignorant about zebra crossing , unaware of double lines and a long list to go. When i first walked on the road here, i just could not believe that zebra crossing still means a thing in this part of the world.Cars do stop at zebra crossing for pedestrians. Red light still means "STOP" unlike us who perceive it as "increasing the acceleration".We can walk on the road with peace in mind without worries of being sent into the hospital. Up till now , i have not witnessed a single car accident on the road.
Scenario 2: In public transport
In Malaysia , we squeezed ourselves into public transports without bothering about the safety of the others. We elbow through the way , occasianally stepping on others feet , shoving the weaker ones aside as long as we make it ourselves. It will be even better if we get a seat despite the stickers showing "seats reserved for the old , pregnant and disabled". Everyone wants the privilege of the "senior citizens" ( the same case as when queuing to board the plane when anyone with a strand of grey hair can coin themselves senior citizen). Here , surprisingly people like to stand. Even without the presence of real seor citizens , people still rather stand than grabbing for seats.
Scenario 3: Shopping at the supermarket
In Malaysia , CCTVs have to be set up at every corner of the shop to prevent petty thefts , looting and any other dishonest acts. People take advantage of every loophole they can think of.When supermarket impose ration for the number of oil per customer during promotion , a whole family consisting of 90-year-old great grandfather and 1-month-old infant will throng the supermarket to increase the head counts. When the price tag is wrongly attached to the packet (of course cheaper) , people will hope that the cashier won't discover it when paying. Here , customers are entrusted to weigh their own fruits and vegetables , pack their own groceries
and state the number of buns they take without the need for rechecking.
Of course there are more differences between our very own culture with theirs. And this is not to say that we have to embrace theirs, as theirs have their own flaws as do ours. It is a matter of respecting the others to gain others' respect.
Anyway,as a Malaysian , brought up ala Malaysian , and live a Malaysian way , i am still a pure breed of Malaysian laaa!